Thursday, August 30, 2007

Oru ponnu oru payyan


Thanx for the 0(verwhelming) responses. But as is my case the thought of sittin at home doing nothing drives me to write blogs. Atleast something to do.
But topics are very hard to strike upon.
I thought I will write bout the earliest realtionship of this world. God created a girl and a boy and man found so many relationships for them. Kudos. Tribals and stone age men take note.
I take the liberty to categorise the realtionship into some categories


1. A guy and a gal in love. Sorry I can’t help it. This is the first thing that comes to one’s mind. The characteristic features of this would be very commonly seen in beaches. The gal sitting on the guy’s lap. Or the guy sleepin on her lap. The duo exchanging tokens of love inside makeshift tents made of duppattas. Atleast they cover something up . Holding hands in a style that is characteristic of each couple. Their hands reaching the most inaccessible places of the other’s body ( sorry for being so crude. But tis true ). Lovers don’ttake any offence. U may grade this as just a blog from a lovelorn youth but this is very nuch true. I would be really glad if u don’t belong to this group.


2. The sorta mother son relationship or a father daughter rel. This is truly very divine and I shall not delve deeep into it. But as everyone says there is no match to a mother’s love. But to say the least this is the only relationship that man is known to have respected for ages. Even by the men who crawled to the homo erectus( the erect man).


3. Brother and sister. This relationship arises outta the mother’s womb. All that apart there are also self proclaimed bro sis pairs. I shall not talk much bout this not to earn thei wrath. But hteir activities sure doesn’t stand testimony.


4. A husband and wife…. This is in a diff league from the lovers coz all husband and wife couple aren’t in love exactly. They are probably victims of situation(santharpathin kaithigal). Anyway they are married beget children and raise them. A life that is drvien by rules. Wife respects husband does household chores and all that. Whatever may be said bout the changing scenario but I still think this is the ground reality and it’ll take aeons to change.


5. Friends. This is probably the only rel that isn’t governed by rules and regulations. All holds barred. Friends make their own rules. And as film makers say friends can always become lovers. I do accept. Lovers start of as friends to escape the public eye and if the relationship doesn’t work out they split as “friends”. Avery safe term to use.


That is all I can think of. But to be honest there are ppl who cannot be categorized into any of the aforesaid sections. And they all shall be cald as “ oru ponnu oru payyan(a girl and a boy)”.
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Disclaimer: the author does not endorse the views. It is jus a reproduction of his inner self.


1 comments:

Madhu said...

ok now tell me what is the name for the relationship between you and that girl (andha ponnu).. (friends please confirm who is "That girl" (andha ponnu) with Mr. Krishna.)